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Why don't you google how many young women have committed suicide because they were labeled a slut, and ironically enough many are virgins.Admitting you are a slut is like admitting you are gay.Also, he likes talking to me, appreciates my perspective on things, and, oh yeah, loves me for me.Everyone deserves that, and no one deserves to be made to feel shame for taking pleasure in the world (and people) around them."Sluts" (you know, women who have sex) are either incapable of love, or incapable of being loved—or both, really.Sluts are insecure women who constantly seek self-esteem through multiple dickings when everyone knows that real self-esteem comes from keeping your legs closed. The question none of the myriad slut-shamers and finger-pointers and moralizers ask is: what slut (or, ahem, person) would want a dude who thinks that sex is equivalent to milk from a cow, or who wants us not to know whether we're getting good sex, or who thinks us incapable or unworthy or love based on our sexual history, or who would prefer that we "hold out" for the sake of making someone love us?If this topic is left quiet most likely the other person will find a secret life.
And sadly, disgustingly, a lot of those people clutching their pearls and pointing their fingers and gearing up to (metaphorically) burn the witch are women.
Someone with different values than you can well find happiness with someone who has similar values to them.
But unless you want to be that other person in a relationship with their partner, you're just allowing yourself to focus on the wrong things—and missing out on what else is around you.
And if you had the audacity to sleep with someone else's boyfriend or someone else's husband, of course you're a tempting slut that he just couldn't resist and it's all your fault and karma will getcha and slut slut slut slut slut. Because the answer is—and should always be—fuck those people (but not literally).
It is not worth it to be in a relationship with someone who isn't interested in you as a person or who places so much emphasis on who else you slept with that he can't notice the person he's sleeping with—or that the person you are currently choosing to sleep with is him.